Harry and Meghan: My take

With Harry and Meghan very much being the “IT” couple of the moment, and dominating headlines when either of them so much as farts, it goes without saying that there are millions of theories being banded around the internet in relation to their marriage, baby and otherwise. 

I receive a lot of questions in the comments on my blog about my thoughts on certain matters, so I figured I’d do an entry laying out what I believe to be the truth regarding the Sussexes. 

(Meghan haters take note – I said what I believe to be the truth – not that it’s gospel.)

It may not always be obvious, but I’m a realist – I don’t buy into exceptionally wild theories regarding the two of them, largely because even if I find them entertaining, I don’t want to look like a raving lunatic; but like anyone else, I have my own thoughts on what could possibly be going on behind the scenes. 

So with that, let’s get stuck in – right from the very beginning…

First off, the circumstances regarding the couple meeting are very unclear, largely because neither Harry nor Meghan seem to remember when it is they actually met. Most reports seem to indicate that they met in either May or June 2016; Piers Morgan went to the pub with Meghan here in London at some point in June 2016, and insists that Meghan took off in a cab after to head to a dinner that Harry was attending – where they were introduced by a mutual friend. 

Another such report says that Meghan met Harry at an Invictus Games dinner that her ex-boyfriend Corey was catering for in May 2016, and that she slipped him her number. While she was still living with Corey as his girlfriend. So be it May or June, it was pretty much confirmed that Meghan was still in a relationship with Corey when she met Harry.

We all remember that statement Harry issued via Kensington Palace in November 2016, addressing alleged racist comments toward his “girlfriend” – claims of which couldn’t actually be justified because there was no evidence of this anywhere. I stand firm on the fact that Meghan forced Harry’s hand on this one, made up the fact she was being “bullied” (even though nobody knew she was his girlfriend) and backed him into a corner to issue a statement so the world would know they were dating. 

Let’s face it, it’d been about five months since they’d started going out and Meghan was probably getting worried Harry would end it with her before the world had a chance to learn Rachel Meghan Markle had banged a Prince – so she took full control.

Like any relationship in it’s early stages, I think they found it all rather exciting. Flitting back and forth across the Atlantic for a quickie every now and again must have been rather thrilling – especially when you’re not living right next to each other and don’t have to put forth the serious effort to see each other a few times a week like other newly-dating couples do. 

But – it goes without saying that a long distance relationship has it’s downsides. 

If you’re hopping back and forth between Toronto and London for a few days here and there every couple of weeks, you don’t really know each other very well. You know the brief glimpses that you see of them, but it’s not everyday domestic life, and that’s what kept it so fresh and exciting for Meghan and Harry.

In my opinion, I do think they split briefly during their “courtship”, likely the same year of the engagement. 

I personally don’t think Harry was feeling it and probably saw Meghan as more of a royal bed-warmer until someone better came along – but Meghan had set her sights on a Prince and there was no way she was letting go of him without a fight. 

I think it’s likely the split came before Tom Inskip’s wedding in Jamaica in March 2017. And if I’m going all out there with my theories, I’d say it even went as far as Meghan forcing herself on the trip while things were super rocky (or potentially over) with Harry.

One look at the wedding photos would tell you as much: Harry isn’t smiling in a single one of them and is barely acknowledging Meghan at all – while she drapes herself over him, an insanely desperate expression on her face.

He didn’t touch her. He barely even looked at her. In fact, he looked furious. Something was wrong.

This is the face of a condemned man – not a happy one

Earlier this year, we learned that Skippy (Tom) and Harry no longer speak, and I do think it stemmed from events at the wedding. 

Apparently, the main reason was because he warned Harry against marrying Meghan (there seems to be a common theme here).

First of all, this is quite shocking; anyone who knows much about the royal circle will know that Harry and Skippy had been close friends for years, so Harry’s decision to axe him from his life is rather sad and somewhat confusing. 

Much like Prince William, I think he saw right through Meghan and her antics at the wedding, and decided she wasn’t the one for his pal to marry. There was no immediate fall-out between Harry and Skippy at the time though, which makes me think that Harry didn’t totally disagree with his mate to begin with and was probably actually looking to ditch her. The fireworks between them must’ve come after, either just before the couple got engaged or just afterwards. 

I think after Jamaica, Meghan really dug her claws in and forced her way back in. Harry was seen getting quite close and friendly with a mystery blonde at a concert for The Killers in July 2017, a mere four months before the engagement was announced, so how serious could they really have been at this time?

Didn’t look like he was too bothered about you in July 2017 Meghan hun

Their “relationship” clearly wasn’t stopping Harry from having fun with other women and this was less than a year before they married, so something was definitely up.

Realising this and determined not to let him slip away, sometime in October 2017, Meghan decides to give a tell-all interview with Vanity Fair, making sure the whole world knew just who she was and hinting at the possibility of her becoming his wife. 

Was this to brag to the universe that she was in a relationship with a British prince? Partly. But I do also think it was a calculated move to hold the Royal Family over a barrel. 

Harry had issued a statement accusing people of racist behaviour and now she’d told the world and it’s wife she was his girlfriend, they were “in love” and it was “serious”; it was checkmate. This way, the House of Windsor couldn’t edge her out of the picture quietly because now everyone would want to know the full story – she was already all over the tabloids. There was no easy way out for them or for Harry.

What makes me think she forced her way back into Harry’s life? Well – certain things just don’t add up. 

Harry and William have always talked about how much they value discretion and respect for their privacy from friends and partners alike, so I’m not sure how Harry thought Meghan speaking to Vanity Fair about their relationship in a four-page spread was honouring this; it’s not something he’d have allowed usually. 

And Harry’s dalliances with other women throughout the relationship just didn’t scream “serious” to me; he’d seen her as easy sex and she’d set her sights on the tiara – the two were bound to clash eventually and it wasn’t going to be pretty.

When the engagement news broke, I remember being quite shocked. This is a woman he’d dated (and perhaps not even consistently) for barely a year-and-a-half and hadn’t lived with up until they got engaged; how well could they possibly know each other? 

She’d jacked in her acting “career”, ditched an elderly pet or two and moved continents for somebody she’d only met the year before – if that doesn’t have “desperate to be a Princess” stamped on it, I don’t know what does. 

I think at the time they got engaged, William had already given Harry a little warning about Meghan, the fact the may have had an agenda and wasn’t all she seemed – but Harry being Harry wanted to ignore this and this could’ve been the start of things souring between the Wales brothers.

Nevertheless, maybe William accepted at the time that he might be wrong, the engagement news breaks and the Cambridges publicly congratulate the two; I’m sure at this time, while there may have been some trepidation, the Duke and Duchess were genuinely pleased for them and the fact Harry was settling down.

I don’t believe things started to go wrong until after Harry and Meghan married.

As we all know, William served as Harry’s best man for Harry’s May 2018 wedding to Meghan, along with his two elder children Prince George and Princess Charlotte serving as page boy and flower girl respectively. It was here that I noticed that things may not have been totally ok between the Sussexes and the Cambridges.

For one, Kate looked totally disinterested and as though she couldn’t wait to get her arse out of that church. Secondly, following suit, none of the rest of the Royal Family looked that bothered either. Zara and Camilla were laughing at the preacher for most of it, Prince Phillip dropped off a few times and The Queen was caught giving Meghan a few death stares – hardly a family pleased for one of it’s members getting married.

I feel like it was all downhill from here; on 15th October 2018, Meghan and Harry announced that they were expecting their first child – met with zero comment from the Royal Family, unlike with Kate’s three pregnancies. With Harry and Meghan’s engagement, the Cambridges managed to muster a “we’re delighted for them” – but absolutely nothing from them for the baby announcement.

Of course, this could be because Kate’s sister Pippa gave birth to her son on the same day the Sussexes broke their own baby news, but I still didn’t see what was stopping William and Catherine from releasing a dual statement, congratulating both couples.

No, I believe that the Wales brothers were on fairly bad terms from not long after the wedding, and the situation just hasn’t ever quite fully repaired itself. Whether it was down to Harry’s annoyance that William tried to dissuade him from marrying Meghan, or because the Cambridges saw the way Meghan conducted herself and wanted to distance themselves, I don’t know – but it’s been clear that there have been issues for a while now. I don’t personally believe they speak very often, if it all anymore and that Harry no longer sees his nephews and niece – which I find rather sad. Both men are frosty and awkward with each other in public and don’t have anything close to the same banter that they did before.

In summary? I think like most people, William and Catherine (and especially William), didn’t actually think Harry would go through with marrying Meghan, so they didn’t really need to worry. I mean, I’m more than happy to raise my hand in agreement with this and say that I, like many others, didn’t think it would happen either and figured something would fall through in the six months between the engagement and the wedding. It was too rushed. Too fast. Lightning speed. How could that possibly work in the long run for two people who barely knew each other?

I think Meghan knew that letting go of Harry would be the biggest mistake she’d ever make – and Harry, in his early thirties and with no other willing participants, realised that Meghan was probably the last chance to marry and start a family. In the thirty-five years that he has been on this earth, she is really the only person who wanted to marry him – yes, likely for all the wrong reasons, but I don’t think he ultimately could’ve passed that up.

So, true love? Nah. Sheer desperation on both parts? Most definitely.

I think Harry was in love with the idea of having a relationship grow organically with a woman like his brother did; I think he was in love with the idea of settling down with a woman who wanted him for him; and I think he was in love with the idea of having a happy family like the Cambridges – three children and a cute dog.

But I also think he eventually realised that the way he had led his life meant that this was never going to happen. I mean, you can’t go around chasing actresses and models for years and expecting to land a homely wife – content with wearing pearls, raising the children and cutting ribbons. The two don’t go hand in hand.

I think Harry puts up with Meghan’s very public faux-pas and clear attention-seeking because he knows there’s a baby arriving – and that seems to be pretty much all Harry has ever wanted – to be a father. He has publicly expressed that for years and he isn’t going to let go of that now.

In regards to the Sussex baby – now into May, who knows what’s happening with that. As I said on my Twitter, it’s one of three things; either Meghan is savagely overdue and they’re about to induce her, they lied about her being 12 weeks when the announcement broke or the baby has already arrived… I’m putting my money on the latter.

I figure the kid arrived sometime last week and they were waiting for Louis and Charlotte’s birthdays and the Cambridges’ wedding anniversary to be out of the way first before they announce anything.

I mean, it’s not likely she’s this seriously overdue, especially pushing 40; and why would Harry be heading to the Netherlands next week if there was a chance of him missing the birth? I do think we’ll hear something any day now – it’s somewhat inevitable.

But to wrap up – if nothing else, this is a total soap opera and one that won’t end well. I know some marriages last the course when the couple married after a short period of dating, but it’s quite rare; and given the backlash they’ve both received and Meghan’s inability to carry herself properly as a royal, I do feel the odds are stacked against them.

My parents only dated for less than two years before marrying as well, and they lasted 23 years and had two children, but they’ve also been divorced for ten… and I should point out that their wedding anniversary, like Harry and Meghan’s, was also May 19th.

Nah, just kidding…. sort of.

Honestly though, I give their marriage another two years tops. I predict the possibility of another Sussex baby next year (to really lock things in for Meghan) and then a separation and divorce drama to rival Charles and Diana’s. Meghan likely won’t be able to leave the country with the kid(s), but I still think once the separation happens, she’ll jet back off to the USA and give the first tell-all interview to anybody who will listen – likely Oprah, as she lives with her head up Meghan’s arse.

Whatever happens, we’ve got the entertainment scheduled for another five years at the very least; there’ll be interviews, chat-show appearances and a book released by Meghan and the palace desperately trying to cover it all up… I can’t wait! It’s going to be amazing.

In the meantime, let’s just sit back, relax and wait for the fireworks… The show is about to start any day now.

39 responses to “Harry and Meghan: My take”

  1. Barbarella64 avatar

    Another wonderful blog lovely lady 😊☮️ #reblog
    I heard the falling out with Skippy was because he & other friends of Harrys knew her from her pay for play days Yachting & that’s why they were all dumped when she arrived on the scene.
    Reality is who really knows what the reasons for any of this – I think we can all agree on one thing though – the ending, & there will be an ending, ain’t gonna be pretty 😊☮️

    1. Thank you so much darling! 💖 and I’m so glad you posted that bit of info because I didn’t know that.. that’s insane! And she had the nerve to go to his wedding? How hilarious. You’re right – I can’t wait for the proverbial to hit the fan – it’ll be great! Xx

  2. You summed up the situation quite well. I also believe the baby arrived last week. I originally picked April 25th. At this point I don’t believe anything Harry and Megs says. They can lie about the birth date and lie about the parentage of the child. Some say a surrogate. My only thought about that is IF that is the case, isn’t that fraud on the Royal Family and the Queen and the order of succession? Sneaking in a baby that wasn’t carried by Meghan, I would think that DNA test would be required to make sure it was Harry’s baby. I keep thinking about that time when Harry was caught on video asking Meghan “You are pregnant? Is it mine?” Could that have been a subtle hint in public that Harry wasn’t sure it was his baby she was carrying? Far-fetched I know, but it nags at me over and over again. Why would Prince Harry in public say that to his pregnant wife even if he was joking? I think one child is all that she would want (she doesn’t strike me as the mother type for all her cooing over other people’s babies). It only takes one child to have her hooks into Harry. I don’t see them staying together more than a couple of years unless Harry has become totally whipped by her and he is not able to leave her. I think she will continue to work at separating him from his family (like she is estranged from her own family) so that he will be totally dependent on her thus can’t leave her. I am just going to sit back and watch the fireworks of this marriage. I just feel sorry for William who has lost his once close brother and Catherine who has to suffer the rumors that I do believe Meg and her PR team have spread about William and Catherine. They have to tear down William and Catherine and their marriage to prop up Meghan and Harry. Sad.

    1. Thank you so much for your comment 💖 I think in terms of the line of succession, if a surrogate is used, they have to prove it’s DNA is of both parents – especially Harry. And I too find it sad that such a wedge has been driven between the brothers and that so much bad press has been put out (very clearly) from her camp. I hope once this drama is over, they can go back to being friends again. I miss the camaraderie between Harry and the Cambridges..

      1. I have my own thoughts on ‘surrogate’ theories that I won’t get into. BUT whatever the case, I am probably one of few who do not actually care whether the baby is blood related or not. Naive, no. Idealistic? Certainly.

        Whilst I do appreciate that the BRF is an age-old institution born of bloodlines…I think this is an act of modernity that trumps even the embracing of a biracial woman. The welcoming of a baby into the royal family regardless of bloodline.

        Adopted children I believe are awarded the same rights as biological ones by law (in Australia, as I’m sure UK too?). So, as an adoptee, I would like to think that any child accepted by Harry to be his, would be awarded their rightful place in the line of succession. Now that would be a legacy for the future – just like the laws HMTQ changed to allow Princess Charlotte not to be skipped. Any ‘surrogacy backlash’ would really stem from the deception of how the child came to be.

        We have moved on as a society, we are more informed and open minded. There should be no shame in admitting challenges to create a family. If this is their scenario, then this truth would make PH/MM as more human, more real, and fuel their ‘humanitarian’ image better than sugar-coated speeches and faux grass-roots fundraising they do.

      2. Thank you for your comment – I appreciate it.

        I’d say first off that I understand what you’re saying; but unfortunately, the bloodline matters a great deal to the royal family and this is one item that ‘modernity’ doesn’t apply to. If the child is not at least Harry’s, he’s rendered illegitimate and as such, cannot take his place in the line of succession. It may be an ‘outdated’ philosophy, but it still stands unfortunately.
        And in a way, I understand it; if they start doing away with all traditions, there’d be no point to having them there. For all intents and purposes, they do stand as a pillar of tradition for Britain and I agree it should be stuck to.

        I’d say if they had problems conceiving and used a surrogate, they should be open about it; a surrogacy would mean that the child is biologically theirs, so is still legitimately in line for the throne anyway. Nobody would mind that. But I think adoption is a very different kettle of fish.

      3. I am a supporter of the monarchy. However “Barb” raises an interesting subject (adoption/non DNA match surrogacy). And I find myself in the rare position of disagreeing with you.

        Your love for the crown is apparent but your comment about the RF being a pillar of “tradition” isn’t true – well not as you perhaps imply. These “traditions” you believe shouldn’t be untampered with HAVE been changed and written by the RF over the decades and centuries. You only have to look at QEII’s reign to see some of those changes to “traditions” for the benefit of current and future generations.

        Traditions are powerful tools used by the monarchy since its existence to bring together its citizens; to retain power and relevance. But to suggest traditions are unchanged (or cannot be, or should not be) defeats the purpose of the monarchy. The monarchy has endured because of their ability to adapt.

        As a historian, the role of every monarch system left standing is not to uphold past tradition steadfastly, but to embody hope, strength and values for their peoples into the modern world.

        I agree that as the laws currently would classify an adopted child or surrogate child via donor egg & sperm as illegitimate. But the point trying to be made is that it doesn’t have to be so, and the RF are well within their power and rights to change the “tradition”. And I think you’ll find there are many of us who would not be opposed to such an idea. Just as Britain’s have embraced “same sex marriage”, it would be a shame to think the BRF would deny one their own of that joy should they find themselves in that situation.

      4. For a child to be in the line of succession, the law is quite clear – it has to be “born of the body royal” and a surrogate is not a body royal.

      5. I understand, but I was wondering if this was more of a “Victorian era” thing. There was no surrogacy then, so they usually had people like the Home Secretary witness the birth, to make sure the baby wasn’t a random one, smuggled in through the back door somewhere. I’ve never seen anything regarding surrogacy and the royal family, but admittedly, I’ve not delved too deep on this matter. I was of the impression that as long as the baby is biologically that of one parent (blood born royal), it’s not a huge issue – but like I say, I’m not 100%. I find it very hard to believe that every last person in direct line of succession for the throne over the last 1000 years has been fertile and able to bear their own children. Some underhand stuff definitely goes on.

      6. If it hadn’t been for George VI – the then Princess Elizabeth would have had the Home Secretary at her bedside witnessing the birth of Prince Charles. The law is quite clear that the child has to be physically given birth to by the mother. Yes, there was probably a good deal of underhand things going on over the past 1000 years, IVF is not a problem, as in the supposed case of Sophie Wessex, and Lord knows there’s no doubt that the children are Windsors. Surrogates, adoption etc then they’re cut out of the succession – as for surrogates the parents have to adopt within six weeks, if Archie is a surrogate baby then it’s a double whammy and by law he shouldn’t be in the line of succession.

  3. Your articles make my day 😀

    I feel she announced the pregnancy early. She cant keep quiet for 12 whole weeks, plus what better time than on the day of another royal wedding? This is seriously the longest pregnancy in history. Hurry up already.

    They also unfollowed all the RF on their instagram to “shed light on various issues every month”. Riiiight. I feel Meghan will get bored very soon once the baby news blows over and no more attention is on her, and she is alone in a castle 24/7 with no freedom to leave the house and do what she wants.

    1. Thank you so much! 💖 and I agree completely – I don’t think being a “princess” is all it’s cracked up to be for her. She’s not like Kate and I can’t see her being content playing house while staying out of the news. She doesn’t do understated – she’s an attention seeker and can’t bear the thought of being out of the news for longer than five seconds. I agree, she’ll be bored soon enough of the life if she isn’t already… she must be pining for the USA by now!

  4. Nora Brinker avatar
    Nora Brinker

    Well said and thank you for your level-headedness!

    1. Thank you so much! 💖

  5. I’m a new follower of your blog, and I couldn’t help but agree with you on this. The relationship escalated in just a snap of a finger… everything between them happened too quickly it makes me wonder what’s going to happen next. PH should have taken his time getting to know MM more, and I think Prince William was right with his comment about their speedy relationship. He was just concerned about his younger brother, I assume. Poor thing Harry himself has been “blinded” and instead of heeding to his brother’s advice, he decided to go astray. Hopefully, this whole crazy Sussex drama will reach its conclusion, and I couldn’t wait to read your next great blog! Keep ’em coming and thank you for such great articles!

    1. Thank you for your comment 💖 as I say, I’m no relationship guru to say their marriage won’t work just because they didn’t know each other very well beforehand – but it doesn’t look likely it’ll go the distance. There’s no solid foundation and they rushed into everything; dating, engaged, married and baby in less than three years? Nah, this one’s headed for the buffers. The BRF aren’t adept at holding their marriages together, even the ones that appeared to be incredibly sturdy, so I doubt this one will last the course. She doesn’t appear to be trying very hard to endear herself to the public either so that can only mean her days as a royal are numbered.

  6. Perhaps she was raised this way and doesn’t know any better, but how does she not see the havoc she has wreaked in every possible situation. From the beginning with the dating announcement. Then the wedding drama. Then the pregnancy announcement, the wildly expensive baby shower, plus the daily “She won’t do it like Kate” articles. It has been an absolute embarrassment for the family since she arrived on the scene. When has she ever shown restraint, good manners or good judgement? The saddest part is the way the family has been torn apart. If she truly loved Harry she would not make him choose between her and his own family. It is like she wrecks everything she comes across.

    1. Possibly; and I do think she’s aware of what she’s doing, but I think she wants to be seen as a “breathe of fresh air” rather than the pain in the arse that she is. She wants to be like Kate and unlike Kate at the same time I feel. I feel bad for Harry and his very clearly severed ties with his brother, but he brought this on himself because he was so desperate to get married, he put a ring on the first willing one. He’s fully responsible for the situation he’s put himself in.

  7. The Princess Royal avatar
    The Princess Royal

    “she’ll jet back off to the USA and give the first tell-all interview to anybody who will listen – likely Oprah, as she lives with her head up Meghan’s arse.”

    I don’t think that can happen because the Royal Family will surely make any divorce settlement – and I agree that a divorce is highly likely, probably within the next 5 years – contingent on a strict NDA. They made the mistake of not insisting on one with Fergie, but they did with Diana and certainly will with Meghan. So she will have very limited opportunities to profit from her royal association post-divorce.

    The same is not true now though. Apparantly American TV presenter Gayle King is heading for Britain as we speak. She was at the product placement baby shower – pure coincidence of course – and is scheduled to do a news ‘special’ on the Sussex family on – I think – May 17th. Things that make you go hmmmmmm…….

    So my suspicion is the baby was born days or even weeks ago, and the big ‘reveal’ will be a (lucrative) excluse with American TV. Hence all the secrecy and nonsense about ‘privacy’. If it’s true, H & M are going to seriously alienate a large proportion of the British public. Why pay for these people, why accord them titles and deference, if they’re going to act like American celebrities and play games with the people funding their extravagant lifestyle?

    1. I did hear about Gayle King – how unbelievably tacky. Are you sure they were all made to sign NDAs though? Fergie has spoken publicly about Andrew and the family previously, but admittedly, I don’t know too much about her.
      Are you certain about Diana as well? She talked to the press a lot after the separation interview and then there was that infamous Martin Bashir interview just after the divorce where she completely dragged the Royal family. Judging by openly she talked about the family and how miserable she’d been, it didn’t look as though there was anything in place.

      I do think the baby might be here already but I’m in two minds; I doubt Meghan would want to miss the attention she’d get of everyone knowing she was in labour, but who knows. You’re right though – her and Harry very much want to be celebrities, not royalty.

      1. The Princess Royal avatar
        The Princess Royal

        ” Are you sure they were all made to sign NDAs though? Fergie has spoken publicly about Andrew and the family previously, but admittedly, I don’t know too much about her.”

        As I said above, Fergie was not made to sign an NDA. Big mistake which the royals will not make again.

        “then there was that infamous Martin Bashir interview just after the divorce where she completely dragged the Royal family.”

        Wasn’t that interview post separation but pre-divorce? As I recall, it was the last straw before HM insisted they get a divorce, which apparantly Diana was not happy about. The intervew was something of a miscalculation on her part. However, she was not legally divorced at the time of the Panorama interview.

        “I do think the baby might be here already but I’m in two minds; I doubt Meghan would want to miss the attention she’d get of everyone knowing she was in labour, but who knows.”

        I think she – or her expensive PR lady (who’s paying her substantial salary, I’d like to know) – are playing this as though she were an American celeb. They are trying to inspire constant press speculation with strategic leaks every day or so, with the aim of keeping her in the news. This is fine if you’re a reality star who constantly needs to keep your name out there, but if you’re a ‘royal’, it’s incredibly tacky. I expect an ‘announcement’ tomorrow – to have a full week of coverage – all building up to the TV ‘special’ on the 17th. She doesn’t care about the British public who are funding her lifestyle – it’s all about the American audience for her.

        That said, it’s all very very weird. Meghan has not been seen in public since, I think, March 19th. Kate always retired from official duties a month before her due date, and there were still occasional pics of her in the press. But we’ve neither seen nor heard from Meghan – if we don’t count her silly posts on Instagram – since mid-March. How can she bear to be away from cameras for so long? Something strange is going on, though exactly what, I really do not know.

  8. Mother Of Dragons avatar
    Mother Of Dragons

    Love your blogs as usual! You seriously need to get these articles into mainstream media, dude!
    I have to agree with you on lots of things you pointed out here. Which is she literally dumped Cory for Harry. No matter how they tell the story. The timeline just doesn’t quite fit. So yea she definitely was with Cory when she met Harry and had that first date with him. As for the dog, not many know but Cory got the “custody” of that dog they both shared for more than 2 years they were in a relationship. How I know? Well cause I read it somewhere and also it was proven during her BBC interview when her facial expression was AWKWARD when asked about the second dog…. re-watch it for that bit and see how she answers it. She says..”a friend is taking care of the dog”… was obvious she was bluffing and hiding something.
    The bit on the Vanity Fair I would like to disagree though… I will tell you why. Although it was Oct 2017 issue but it comes out by end of Sept. And magazines work 2 to 1.5 months ahead for their issues. She landing a cover for Vanity Fair is/was a huge thing and I believe it was with the Palace’s permission. Some amazing PR landed that cover for her. She was NOBODY then… Because in my opinion, they got engaged wayyyy ahead of time.. my guess was when he took her to Africa again for her 2017 birthday in early Aug. That was when they got engaged and informed the Queen about their intentions. Or it could have been earlier than Africa… who knows. I mean think about it… the BRF would never have approved for this tell all interview unless they have been informed about their engagement and confirmed to get married. If they were still dating, MM would NEVER have received that permission to give any interview, let alone Vanity Fair. I think this issue was also a way for the palace to sort of announce that yes, yes they are dating and have our blessings. Also, she was planning her move to the UK for months and months and I can tell you no woman would stop her life until he doesn’t put a ring to it. The Palace HAD to hold back the announcement of their engagement and postpone it to Nov 27 because who knows… I believe there were some BRF important celebrations due Aug – Oct that year…? and announcing it earlier would have overshadowed things for the BRF.

    But we can both agree and the many out there…. it was all just so so bizarre how she managed to hook her claws into him and rushed everything. I have to give it to her though… full credit goes to her. I kinda envy her ruthlessness… wish I could learn a thing or 2 from her… hahah…. pays off being a ruthless, pushy Bia*ch!! 😀

    1. I have to disagree about the Vanity Fair interview. She marches ahead with her plans no matter who has given permission and the BRF were not yet in a position to tell her what to do. The fact that she had made it very, very public that she and Harry were “serious” was enough for her to have her cover on VF. The BRF doesn’t have any celebrations in August and September of every year. That is when they take their vacation up in Scotland and schedule nothing. I think the engagement announcement could have been postponed due to the speedy nature of their relationship and announcing in November made it seem they had been together longer. Apparently Harry and Meghan think we’re all dumb.

      1. I think you’re right there – she has never adhered to royal protocol, so hardly surprising if she did what she wanted without permission.

        Harry and Meg think we’re all stupid – that much is evident. Let’s see how long they can keep this up…

  9. Yah kinda in a pissy mood so you probably won’t post my comment…oh well …Harry has ruined himself taking up with that witch.

    Even that vanity fair interview and her forcing out a statement shouldn’t have been enough to lock the dimwit in. He could’ve still said no and canceled the wedding. It would’ve been far easier to deal with the fallout of a canceled wedding than the the pile of shit Meghan has put them through for over a year and even more with the fake pillow baby. Because there’s no way she’s pregnant. I’m of the belief she was never pregnant and is blackmailing the RF for a payout. She’s just downright evil that woman but Harry being the spoiled brat he’s been his whole life just wouldn’t listen to reason and as always people have to clean up his mess. I’m so done with the ginger weasel putting his grandparents through anguish dealing with the grifter’s embarrassing antics. No respect for the hazard anymore.

    The sooner they get rid of her, the better for the whole family. Just be prepared for her tell-all books and interviews with Oprah. Awful, conniving woman. ABSOUTELY without morals. Meghan malevolent to the core.

  10. Great job! I totally saw the same desperate expression on her face and her desperate behaviour on those Jamaica wedding pictures. I have no idea how did she manage to get him after that. Most guys run from women when they are like that.
    I think people would accept much easier all her rudeness, stupidness, and all her horrible crap if she would be head over heels for Harry. However, she is not.
    Sometimes I wonder if she is aware of how much she is disliked. She definitely doesn’t seem to care.

  11. You write very well and present the nuances clearly. Do you think there’s more to these “backers “ she has, other people looking for associated fame and merching favors? Like something globalist and political? Like some kind of blackmail, held over Harry’s head? I also think Harry was at first drawn to the humanitarian act she put on, as it reminded him of the best of his mother. Also, her fearlessness with the media made her attractive to him because he thought she could handle it and not feel hounded and hurt like his mother. Just thoughts to share. I love your voice!

    1. Thank you so much xx

      I do think she always has an agenda, but I’m not sure it’s as sinister as we might think. However, I do believe that politics will be her next move. I don’t think she has blackmailed anybody, but I feel like she may have told Harry she was pregnant to get a proposal out of him and then feigned a miscarriage in the lead up-up to the wedding. And then bam – pregnant within a couple of months of the wedding. It’s an ‘out there’ theory, but not beyond the realm of possibility. And agreed that he wanted someone he thought could ‘handle the media glare’, but… she wasn’t well-known before at all and he should’ve known this. She didn’t know how to handle the press before because she didn’t have to.

  12. Enjoy your blog and totally agreed with this post. I also believe that both PH and MM were driven by desperation: him to get married and have a family and her to get money and fame (quite possibly her last chance)– and that they hardly knew each other. Neither of these two are very bright and HE could have waited and taken his time. Well, he’s a dim playboy who has never grown up enough for any normal adult woman to want to marry and she believes that she’s a fairy tale, Disney princess who can do whatever she likes and thinks she’s the smartest, most attractive one in the room (she’s not). Never cared much for Harry (Las Vegas shenanigans and Nazi uniform) and this just proves how clueless he really is. As for her, I wanted to like her but then I saw that first interview– a normal person would be nervous but she wasn’t at all. And that bit about not knowing about the global impact of the British Royal family is total BS as I am sure most if not all American women know about the BRF. All of her subsequent behavior such as spending way too much money on almost all of her clothing, flaunting her newfound wealth, willfully ignoring protocol, being way too invested in selling her brand, not to mention her very odd pregnancy…. Even PH has to have a clue by now. Her pushiness, lack of scruples, ability to use people and then dump them, and love of attention know no bounds and is quite amazing while at the same time appalling. Will be interesting to see how this all plays out. Look forward to your subsequent posts.

    1. Thank you so much for your comment and I totally agree with you – it’ll all unravel eventually and it will be interesting when it does xx

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    Ginge and major cringe

    Omg please be careful ..apparently her PR is on a warpath to hack anti-MeGain blogs online and delete them. The ones on WordPress and blogspot google seem to be their target. Hope all your entries are backed to repost later just in case. Otherwise please keep writing!. So much to cover on the twosome gruesome

    1. Thank you for the warning! I can’t believe they’re pulling shit like this – that is insane. Thank you once again for telling me 💖

  14. Great post and some very relevant observations! I totally agree with you about MeAgain being desperate – one of the first things that I said about their relationship was “she’s thinking: no more casting calls!” It’s all just so obvious – she wanted a big break that wasn’t coming and was becoming more and more unlikely. Then she met Harry, who, as we all know by now, is not the sharpest knife in the drawer, seems quite immature, prone to tantrums and rather clueless. I guess he just seemed an easy catch, especially since he supposedly crushed on her “Suits” character (speaking of immature…) and had been all but publicly pining for marriage and children. I doubt it that she had an agenda to specifically become part of the BRF, though – I guess she got lucky in that she was introduced to Harry in the first place and he ticked all of the boxes on her mental list. That was enough to start a cable-worthy performance. I remember being shocked when the Duchess of Cornwall supposedly described Meghan as “so, so pleasant”. Of course she was pleasant, she was trying to please! How come everyone bought this? Or was Camilla just being polite?
    That said, I don’t agree that Harry wasn’t planning to go the distance with Meghan – he was almost as desperate as she was! Keeping in mind what I have written about Harry above, it’s easy to imagine that even a lowly actress like Ms Rachel Markle could have easily convinced him that she’s is totally the one and so much more. It reminds me of high school pranks on the weird kids: if you knew what to tell them, they ate out of your hand.
    We also seem to be missing one thing – the cultural differences. I was born in Europe, grew up in America and came back to Europe at the age of ten, and I vividly remember perceiving the UK as completely, totally alien. NOTHING in Great Britain reminds me of the US. NOTHING. If Meghan was not aware of this or chose to ignore this, it only goes to show her true colours.

    1. Thank you for your comment and yours is totally perfect xx

      I’d agree with that – I don’t think it was her plan to snare Harry from day one, but I do think once she met him, she wasn’t going to let that one go. As you say, she wasn’t going anywhere in the acting world; I’ve seen her act and it’s mediocre at best – she was never going to crack Hollywood and if it hadn’t happened by 36, it was never going to. However, I do believe this is the role of her life and this is the best acting she’s ever done.

      I still stand firm that Harry may have split with her because he wasn’t sure or she got too much, but like you say, he’s not the brightest bulb in the tanning bed – so desperate for a family, he got back with her and carried on. That’s my take anyway.

      I genuinely believe he is delighted with the arrival of his son, but I don’t know how much bearing that has on Meghan. I think he obviously loves her, but maybe in his head knows it won’t last and isn’t too fussed now anyway – he’s got his child. It will be interesting to see how it all pans out…

  15. I’m really curious as to what is going on. If she was 3 months mid-Oct and 6 months mid-Jan then shouldnt she have had it by mid April? And if she did give birth why didnt we get an announcement she was in labour as promised? Is it because the baby was a home birth? Heaven forbid something horrible happened?
    Its all so weird and I dont get why this labour and birth is shrouded in secrecy.

    I dont think getting engaged after 1.5 years is that quick or the real issue. I think its the fact they “dated” living so far apart, never seeing each other and that she doesnt really give a crap about him.

    Being 36 myself and single, if I were to meet someone it would probably happen fast as I am older now and I know I want marriage and kids. But you really need to see someone regularly to get to know them more than a quick shag every few months.

    1. This is the thing; mathematically, she should’ve been due by around 21st/22nd April if she was over 12 weeks at the time of the announcement, and pushing 40, I can’t see them letting her go too far overdue. She’d be a couple of weeks over by now, so it’s all moving slowly.

      As for the dating, you are right; a short courtship doesn’t mean it’s doomed to fail but their entire foundation was shaky. It’s not just the fact that she’s from another country, it’s the fact she’s from another country and seems to thumb her nose at our traditions and customs.

      Re the baby, I don’t think anything bad has happened; Harry’s been swanning about happy as Larry, so I’m sure all is fine. I have the odd moment where I think the baby has already arrived, but we’ll find out in due course I’m sure.

  16. I love your posts, and I wish you’d post more often as I love listening (reading) your points of view. This whole situation is just weird. The more they try and push the fairytale narrative the more disingenuous it gets.

    VF: I agree that this was her way of making it hard for Harry and BRF to refute her. I also think that the VF article could have been leveraged to end ‘the break’. Then I can’t help but feel that she gave him an ultimatum: marry or else. I can’t decide whether she pulled the ‘pregnant’ card yet, but the cynical part of me can’t help but feel she did use it at least once on her journey to the aisle.

    I have to disagree about the fall out (between PW and PH/MM) happening after the wedding though. I believe there were signs of tension way before. For instance, The Royal Foundation Forum they had pre-wedding, there are several remarks that hint to disharmony. MM undermined the foundation and PW a number of times (and PW’s expression shows he doesn’t agree), their evasiveness in responding to the question about “family disagreements”, the order they were seated. I couldn’t help but feel KM was a physical buffer.

    If the baby has arrived, it would have arrived a while ago. I don’t believe a father in the privileged position Harry’s in financially would leave his anxiously-tethered wife and newborn any earlier than 2 weeks. I think MM’s belly size was far too large in December, and in February for her to have been only 8 weeks at announcement. The only reason I can imagine for it is if she happened to be carrying multiples (would account for early size) and one has unfortunately not made it (would explain why her belly hasn’t grown much since). Either way, I agree…the baby has probably already arrived…weeks, weeks ago. As for why MM has been silent? I think she’s working on her post-baby body…and a good 6-8week program would allow time to shed any excess plumpness for her photo call.

    1. Thank you so much, I really appreciate this xx

      Regarding tensions, I completely agree with you. Things definitely weren’t a-ok between the four of them before either, but I do think it worsened after the wedding. There’d have been issues beforehand for sure – I don’t think the Cambridges ever took to her and that quickly became apparent.

      If I’m being super out-there in my theories, given the rushed nature of the relationship and engagement, I wonder if it was either some kind of ultimatum or she told him she was pregnant to get a ring out of him and then conveniently feigned a miscarriage in the lead-up to the wedding – but it had already been announced, so Harry went through with it anyway. I don’t know – there are so many theories that it’s hard to tell what really went down, but I feel like she had something on him.

      Or it could simply be the case that he was desperate for the family and she was desperate for the tiara, so they decided to go for it. Hopefully one day, we’ll have the full picture.

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    Delightfully wicked summation ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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